Friday, May 30, 2008

Donuts And Dads

Centerville Primary Village South did a pretty cool celebration for the end of An's Kindergarten year: Donuts And Dads. It was awesome! An was so excited for me to be at her school in the week before hand that she had her outfit all picked out that she changed to an even fancier dress like ensemble in Centerville black and gold spirit.



First there was boredom...



Then there was singing...




Then the hugging started...

Ah, the donuts...I do miss them so.

Thanks, Kaity bear, it was lots of fun and daddy loves you.

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Thursday, May 22, 2008

New Musical Sensation

Kevin, Jr. at his chorus group's performance at Dayton Dragon's game.




He was so excited and they actually sounded really good singing the national anthem. The Dragons didn't do too well that day, but it was all worth it for the Centerville parents who were in attendance as the kids rocked the house.

The entire Cross clan enjoyed it as they had all sorts of over priced junk from the ball park including the very popular dippin' dots which I have to admit guilt on having myself. Again, money well spent. :)

So lookout world, the musical stylings of Kevin Christopher Cross, Jr. will coming to a stage near you very soon...be afraid...be very afraid!

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Monday, May 19, 2008

Love Life - A Poet's Reflection

It is amazing what the laughter of your kids can do to your own happiness. For too long my focus was to work and work, thinking that was what I could provide to best serve those I love. However, as I slowly learn how to take the time to love the little moments with my life, my family, I find that those little moments are the most precious.


Just having Kyler in my hands for a few minutes or talking with An about dancing or simply hugging the boys when I come in the house.


Seeing Kailyn smiling and being care free warms my heart. She will make a difference some day if she is even only a half as beautiful a person as her mother is.


I have realized I need to progress towards these words...

Patience. I need to gain more to not rush past what matters by losing perspective and not giving those I love the chance to be happy.


Relaxation. The tension of all my worries need to be washed away by the joys that I have been and continue to be blessed with.


Ask. Communicate with those I love to find out how I can help. Tell others when I need help instead of stressing the solitude of all life's burdens.


Yield. Take more time to enjoy what little time I have to love what little time we have.


And in my praise, I hope to come closer to the image of what God intended for me to be. If only I didn't waste so much time worrying, I could be that much more along my journey.


After all, it is the journey that makes us happy and not the destination.


Keep loving life.


Peace.

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Invictus

I shared the poem Invictus (Unconquerable) by William Ernest Henley with the girls on Sunday as I felt with all they have gone through this season and the growth/resilience they have shown that they embodied these words I had read when I was around their age.

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find me, unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate;
I am the captain of my soul.


Now I am sharing it with you to hopefully push us all to do everything fearlessly and with pride that you control what happens to you and your opponents or critics.

“Keep smiling”

Salaam (Peace)
Kev

Greater Cincinnati Classic 2008

Well it has been several months without a word, but of course life and basketball has continued.

After my middle school season came to an end, I could turn my attention back to the kids basketball tournaments in March. Kaleb's team (2nd grade recreation) was knocked out in first round; Kevin's team (4th grade recreation) made it all the way to the championships and finished runner-up to best team in their league; Kailyn-Naddiyah's team (6th grade select) made it to the championships and finished their year as Dayton Metro DI Runner-Up to Springboro.

That's the end...just kidding...you should know by now that basketball lives forever, so on to AAU.

Through a series of chaotic twists and turns, I ended up coaching Naddiyah and the Dayton Lady Hoopstars 11 and under black team this summer. This group of girls are very talented, but we struggled for first two tournaments largely in part as I figured out what kind of team we were going to be. They say you learn more from the games you lose than those you win, so boy did we do a lot of learning. :) 1-7

By our third tournament, we were looking like a decent team, but in the same tournament showed we needed lots more work going 2-2. Therefore, we learned some more and went on to prepare for the Ohio AAU District Championships which we were lucky enough to draw the #1 team in our district the first game into a double elimination bracket of 14 teams. I was hopeful, though, but was probably the only one -- and even I have to admit I was being optimistic about winning against WV Thunder but thought even a lost playing our best game would propel us to the next level. Luckily for me, the girls worked very hard and took the lose to WV Thunder as the spark to make a run in the tournament I had hoped as we went on to win four straight games decidedly and nearly won fifth losing to the 3rd place Cincy Angels 48-50 with Naddiyah scoring 19 points. From where we started to districts, I was very happy with 4th place and 4-2 record.

And the growing doesn't stop there...

On to McGee's Courts4Sports for another AAU Super Regional in which we put in pool with our district championship's 2nd place team, Southern Ohio Magic, and the solid Indiana ISSA Elite. We played phenomenal basketball in both games, but had not quite learned the lesson the Cincy Angels lost should have taught us about playing with a lead in a close game, so we lose two heart breakers at buzzer 40-41 and 46-47 to end up 3rd in our pool. That would probably stop most teams, our girls bounced back the next day short-handed (6 players) and beat Cincy Legend to advance to the semi-finals, controlling the game and displaying an understanding of all the areas we came up short in the previous three loses starting with the Angels. Unfortunately, with few subs, we played Southern Ohio Magic poorly in the first half of the semis; however, the girls showed their talent and we scored 30 points in second half to prove again that we are still a good team. It was only 1-3, but what we learned was well worth the heartache. We played like champions even in defeat highlighted by Krystah's 14 point (4 3-pt baskets) and Bethany's 22 point (6 3-pt baskets) displays in lose to ISSA Elite (tournament champion) in pool play and Magic (tournament runner-up) in semis, respectively.

We can't stop now...

The Greater Cincinnati Classic finally arrived last weekend May 16th - 18th and we were ready to show the world how much better we were, but we did one even better and we became even better as the tournament went on. Starting on Friday night, the girls played a game I told them was the "worst game" I have seen them play all season as we won 40-17 -- harsh coach I know, but it worked. On Saturday, the girls played very disciplined and made it clear to everyone what they were all about as we won two more games 37-12 and 50-25 to move on to the championship bracket. We couldn't stop now and we didn't playing two brilliant defensive games to win semis 24-17 against Cincy Heat and finals 36-29 over Cincy Royals. We still did a lot of learning, but without the losing: 5-0 and tournament champions.

We saw a number of big things, including a 13 point run by Nadi to get us fired up in the first half of Saturday night's game, followed up by a complimentary second half 13 points by Krystah (16 points total) as Naddiyah sat out hurt. We had 11 point barrage by Bethany to lead us in scoring in the championships along with Chea who pulled down 12 boards to go along with her 11 points. We also saw the "iron woman" display by McKenzie who played 24 minutes straight playing the best girl on Heat on Sunday; played in a soccer game; played almost 24 minutes straight again playing the best girl on Royals in championships. Brittni had key free throws down the stretch and controlled the boards with Chea all weekend. Johna, Tiffany, and Mallon showed everyone how to hustle in game against Heat as we held them to 17 points to win semi-finals.

The girls made my weekend and so I had to share with all of you as I was very proud as a coach and a dad. No matter what we do from here on out, I know two things will always hold true.

Who are we: HOOPSTARS! And how did we do it: TOGETHER!

And we won't stop...

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