Way Too Long, Way Too Fast

Time and life fly by very fast.

It doesn't seem like it, but the facts don't lie. It has been over a year since the last post.

Since we left off with the final days of the 2008 division II AAU (amateur athletics union) 12 and under championships, I will start off there. The team finished 2nd in the nation to a very good Oklahoma Select team who we went 1-2 against in the tournament. We were the only team to beat them on their championship run. It was a great experience. Think Nadi really enjoyed her time in Bloomington. I know the rest of us sure did.

The next year had Nadi's first middle school season; Kaitlyn's venture into competive dance; Kevin, Kaleb, and Kaitlyn's cross country inagural season; Kyler's talking, walking, running, ... crazy! Let's just say a lot of growing in a short amount of time. The kids are all so much bigger.

Most recently, Kailyn finished 2nd at the 12 and under division I AAU nationals in Kingsport TN.

The first time the family was not in attendance as everyone else spent two weeks in New York with family for big Nana's birthday. I joined the weekend of the actual party and it was very fun. Kai got to go to both, so she had a blast and traveled quite a bit.

Kevin, Kaleb, and Kaitlyn are starting their 2nd season of cross country which I am going to try to help with while I still have some free time. Still coaching with the Miami Valley School (17-5 last year), so get very busy after October. Need to enjoy time with family before then.

Will make a concerted effort to keep you all up to date to keep us connected.

K

AAU 12U D-II Nationals 2008 (Day 5)

Well two more days of fun in Bloomington IN and at least two more to go (but hopefully three).

Monday, the first day of championship bracket play, the team played inspired and went 2-0, including the best game I have seen them play against the White Rose Stars that knocked them out of the Nationals last year. The struggling to score was stopped with a nice 73-57 victory over a good Stars team. All twelve girls played well. It is good to see them be successful as they are a good group that work and have fun together.

Tuesday, we played the Indiana Blizzard and looked slightly off offensively; however, pulled out another good victory by 7 points to move on to the "elite 8".

The highlight of the last two days for the girls was the scary movie on Monday night and the bowling escapade tonight. As I said, the team definitely has lots of fun together on and off the court.

On to the next few days...

AAU 12U D-II Nationals 2008 (Day 3)

Bloomington IN is about 185 miles from Centerville OH and has been a pretty cool place to visit so far...

Given the 11U team did not attend a Nationals this year, Naddiyah was ecstatic to get the opportunity to join the Dayton Lady Hoopstars 12U White team at the D-II championships in Bloomington. It has been a great nationals already and we are not even into the bracket play yet. What makes it so great is the closeness of the girls and the parents on the team.

We came up on the 4th of July (Happy Fourth!!!) and found a way to enjoy the night despite a lack luster opening ceremonies. The cool thing was that the girls were given t-shirts, bags, and traded for other memorabilia on the first night. I don't remember all that at Disney, but maybe I just wasn't taking in each moment as I was this year.

Oh yeah, we are here for basketball. The pool play was up and down. We played the first two games in a shooting slump (I mean bad -- even on layups and free throws), but still found a way to split 1-1. Then at the 6:00p game today, the girls put together a pretty good win that should boost their confidence going into the championship brackets. All the girls seemed to be firing on all cylinders and Naddiyah even got to a play a fair amount which was cool for her as she really enjoys playing with these girls. They are a great group. I am glad this last game was so successful as I think they were mentally beaten in middle game.

Anyway, back to Bloomington. We went to Lake Lemon yesterday, which was very fun. Afterwards, we enjoyed the night some more in the cozy area behind the Quality Inn we are staying at. Speaking of which, we ended up in the Presidential Suite thanks to Zayannab's wisdom (a lot of years put into...ok I'll stop there), which isn't as big of a deal as it sounds in a small hotel; however, it is very nice. We have a jacuzzi in the master bedroom and our own TV, so we actually feel like we are on vacation.

Well, I will have to keep you all posted, but the girls are on their way.

Peace.

Belated Father's Day 2008

With basketball as busy as it was, I opted on Father's Day to take a rain check on my present and gave the boy's a promise that we would have a boy's day out on the same day. It has been a few weeks, but the day of total male domination was here (I would make jokes, but this is a family site, so move on and stop thinking about it).

I begun the day by going off to Hausfeld's to get my full body massage. YEAH! Happy Father's day to me... When I arrived, they were not open yet, so I relaxed watching sports and car shows at Buffalo Wild Wings while eating some delicious nachos. YEAH! Happy Father's day to me... The massage time came and went and was thoroughly awesome. YEAH! Happy Father's day to me...

Following this total indulgence, the boys and I headed off to LaserWeb Tag where we played basketball, soccer bowling, air hockey, dance dance revolution (I watched that one), motor bike racing, pin ball...oh yeah, and laser tag. YEAH! Happy Father's day to us...

That was a lot for three adventurous men to handle on an empty stomach, so we were off to the infamous Flying Pizza and enjoyed delicious New York style pizza and ice cream (I watched that one).

To ensure that we properly burn off all those excess calories, we then ventured over to the Adventure Golf and played 36 holes of amazingly pathetic putt-putt golf. We probably shot double the par course, but it was lots of fun. We took turns completing each hole and we all have some pretty shameful stories of having to take the maximum 6 strokes and moving on. The highlight was probably the two hole in ones by Kevin Jr. on the harder "blue" course which we did shoot pretty well after warming up with an impressive +25 on the "red" course.

We came, we saw, we had fun... YEAH! Happy Father's day to us...

But just to make sure we had the most fun ever, we went back over to LaserWeb Tag for one more round of video games and laser tag. This time, we were alone in the laser tag game so we played the boys versus dad and, in true positive parenting fashion, I annihilated them. We had so much fun in that session, that we forgot all about the game tokens we still had left when they called us in for laser tag session and went home.

Regrouping, bringing along the younger KCs, we ventured back for some more ice cream and one last round of video mania which featured An and Kevin Jr. on dance dance revolution (again I watched that one) and Kyler kicking some soccer ball with fury.

All in all, it was a pretty good day. YEAH! Happy Father's day to me...

GBA Nationals 2008

The 6th annual Girls Basketball Association (GBA) National Championships held at Sports Plus and McGee's Courts4Sports in Cincinnati this year was the final tournament for the DLH 11 Black team this year. It was a great turn out with 20 teams in our age group with good competition.

In typical fashion, we have to keep everyone on the edge of their seats, so we come out losing our first game Thursday night to the Columbus Lady Diamonds (3rd place finisher) by a score of 28-29. Fortunately for us, the girls grew as the tournament progressed in typical fashion as well.

We compiled two wins on Friday before going into Saturday to battle the Cincy Royals one last time. With lots of heart, we beat them 32-28 to clench first place in our pool as we entered the single elimination championship bracket consisting of four straight games to be played all in one day on Sunday.

Funnily, thinking back, we ended the day in the reverse of how we started, but I won't get too far ahead of myself as there was plenty of really good basketball in between our 20+ point victory over WV Blue Devils and 20 point lost to Southern Ohio Magic (apparently who were our arch nemesis accounting for four of our loses for the season). We were just flat out of juice after playing WV Thunder (10) in a tough battle we won in OT 38-35, then Miami Trace 43-35. Between the brilliant plays and the fast pace, four games ended up being too much for us to muster enough to contend with the very good Souther Ohio Magic team.

As sad as that sounds at the end, it was an amazing tournament for us finishing as the GBA Nationals Runner-Up with a record of 6-2. I could not have been any more proud of the girls, especially for the Miami Trace game which was most definitely our best game of the tournament and probably for the year.

Have to stop now (for this year)...

But we played hard, had fun, and stuck together!

Who are we: HOOPSTARS! And how did we do it: TOGETHER!

Adidas/Wendy's National Invitational Tournament 2008

Well, it took seven tournaments, but Naddiyah's team is finally above 500. They are a great group of 11 year old girls, so it has been a joy to watch them grow to the level they displayed in this past weekend's tournament at the Kingdom Sports Center in Franklin OH.

We were playing up in the 12 & under division which we won in very good style. The girls played like a team the entire way, moving the ball extremely well. We even saw an ally-oop that in a few years may be a dunk as Johna made a beautiful pass to Chea on fast break that looked very (W)NBA.

After going 4-0 in this tournament, the girls have a record of 17-14 now with 13 loses being to DI Nationals bound teams with 12 coming from the same 5 teams that have been or will most likely be in the sweet sixteen or close to it. With how we started the year, it is a big accomplishment that I am very proud of the girls for. Additionally impressive is that it is two undefeated weekends in a row, which was also a welcome occurrence after all our struggles. The middle schools better watch out because these girls are going to do some damage in the future. With some hard work, the high schools will be rocking in a few years as well. And even better, if they can avenge some of the 13 loses to DI National Qualifiers next year, they can do some damage on the AAU courts.

Can't stop now...

Keep playing hard and sticking together!

Who are we: HOOPSTARS! And how did we do it: TOGETHER!

Visit To The Land of the Frogs

Worked from home today, so I could attend Kaleb's end of year pizza party at lunch time. It was pretty cool. There classroom theme is all about frogs. There were frog pictures, stuffed animals, sayings, stickers, books, ribbit -- oh sorry -- everywhere.



We are NOT sure if the third grade is ready for Kaleb, but he is ready for the third grade. He is gunho for book club, cub scout day camp, and lots of summer fun on the way to graduating from being a tadpole.

Thanks, son.

Love you.

Donuts And Dads

Centerville Primary Village South did a pretty cool celebration for the end of An's Kindergarten year: Donuts And Dads. It was awesome! An was so excited for me to be at her school in the week before hand that she had her outfit all picked out that she changed to an even fancier dress like ensemble in Centerville black and gold spirit.



First there was boredom...



Then there was singing...




Then the hugging started...

Ah, the donuts...I do miss them so.

Thanks, Kaity bear, it was lots of fun and daddy loves you.

New Musical Sensation

Kevin, Jr. at his chorus group's performance at Dayton Dragon's game.

He was so excited and they actually sounded really good singing the national anthem. The Dragons didn't do too well that day, but it was all worth it for the Centerville parents who were in attendance as the kids rocked the house.

The entire Cross clan enjoyed it as they had all sorts of over priced junk from the ball park including the very popular dippin' dots which I have to admit guilt on having myself. Again, money well spent. :)

So lookout world, the musical stylings of Kevin Christopher Cross, Jr. will coming to a stage near you very soon...be afraid...be very afraid!

Greater Cincinnati Classic 2008

Well it has been several months without a word, but of course life and basketball has continued.

After my middle school season came to an end, I could turn my attention back to the kids basketball tournaments in March. Kaleb's team (2nd grade recreation) was knocked out in first round; Kevin's team (4th grade recreation) made it all the way to the championships and finished runner-up to best team in their league; Kailyn-Naddiyah's team (6th grade select) made it to the championships and finished their year as Dayton Metro DI Runner-Up to Springboro.

That's the end...just kidding...you should know by now that basketball lives forever, so on to AAU.

Through a series of chaotic twists and turns, I ended up coaching Naddiyah and the Dayton Lady Hoopstars 11 and under black team this summer. This group of girls are very talented, but we struggled for first two tournaments largely in part as I figured out what kind of team we were going to be. They say you learn more from the games you lose than those you win, so boy did we do a lot of learning. :) 1-7

By our third tournament, we were looking like a decent team, but in the same tournament showed we needed lots more work going 2-2. Therefore, we learned some more and went on to prepare for the Ohio AAU District Championships which we were lucky enough to draw the #1 team in our district the first game into a double elimination bracket of 14 teams. I was hopeful, though, but was probably the only one -- and even I have to admit I was being optimistic about winning against WV Thunder but thought even a lost playing our best game would propel us to the next level. Luckily for me, the girls worked very hard and took the lose to WV Thunder as the spark to make a run in the tournament I had hoped as we went on to win four straight games decidedly and nearly won fifth losing to the 3rd place Cincy Angels 48-50 with Naddiyah scoring 19 points. From where we started to districts, I was very happy with 4th place and 4-2 record.

And the growing doesn't stop there...

On to McGee's Courts4Sports for another AAU Super Regional in which we put in pool with our district championship's 2nd place team, Southern Ohio Magic, and the solid Indiana ISSA Elite. We played phenomenal basketball in both games, but had not quite learned the lesson the Cincy Angels lost should have taught us about playing with a lead in a close game, so we lose two heart breakers at buzzer 40-41 and 46-47 to end up 3rd in our pool. That would probably stop most teams, our girls bounced back the next day short-handed (6 players) and beat Cincy Legend to advance to the semi-finals, controlling the game and displaying an understanding of all the areas we came up short in the previous three loses starting with the Angels. Unfortunately, with few subs, we played Southern Ohio Magic poorly in the first half of the semis; however, the girls showed their talent and we scored 30 points in second half to prove again that we are still a good team. It was only 1-3, but what we learned was well worth the heartache. We played like champions even in defeat highlighted by Krystah's 14 point (4 3-pt baskets) and Bethany's 22 point (6 3-pt baskets) displays in lose to ISSA Elite (tournament champion) in pool play and Magic (tournament runner-up) in semis, respectively.

We can't stop now...

The Greater Cincinnati Classic finally arrived last weekend May 16th - 18th and we were ready to show the world how much better we were, but we did one even better and we became even better as the tournament went on. Starting on Friday night, the girls played a game I told them was the "worst game" I have seen them play all season as we won 40-17 -- harsh coach I know, but it worked. On Saturday, the girls played very disciplined and made it clear to everyone what they were all about as we won two more games 37-12 and 50-25 to move on to the championship bracket. We couldn't stop now and we didn't playing two brilliant defensive games to win semis 24-17 against Cincy Heat and finals 36-29 over Cincy Royals. We still did a lot of learning, but without the losing: 5-0 and tournament champions.

We saw a number of big things, including a 13 point run by Nadi to get us fired up in the first half of Saturday night's game, followed up by a complimentary second half 13 points by Krystah (16 points total) as Naddiyah sat out hurt. We had 11 point barrage by Bethany to lead us in scoring in the championships along with Chea who pulled down 12 boards to go along with her 11 points. We also saw the "iron woman" display by McKenzie who played 24 minutes straight playing the best girl on Heat on Sunday; played in a soccer game; played almost 24 minutes straight again playing the best girl on Royals in championships. Brittni had key free throws down the stretch and controlled the boards with Chea all weekend. Johna, Tiffany, and Mallon showed everyone how to hustle in game against Heat as we held them to 17 points to win semi-finals.

The girls made my weekend and so I had to share with all of you as I was very proud as a coach and a dad. No matter what we do from here on out, I know two things will always hold true.

Who are we: HOOPSTARS! And how did we do it: TOGETHER!

And we won't stop...

AAU National Championships 2007

Naddiyah and the 10 and under Dayton Lady Hoopstars team finished 7th in the nation at this years National Championships for girls AAU Basketball. The trip was extremely fun as the games are held in Disney's ESPN Wide World of Sports complex in Orlando FL.

It was worth seeing the determination Nadi showed in the second to last game her team played as she drove the full length of the court fully intending to score. She must have gone through all five defenders or at least that is how it appeared to the spectators. One defender for sure will remember her presence, as the last move was very strong and decisively a facial. As her coached said it was a WNBA caliber move. This basket was the winning shot to put the team into 7th place as the subsequent game they lost to the 5th placed ISSA Elite out of Indiana.

It was amazing seeing 59 teams with 10+ girls each, all playing basketball at a very high level while still being adorable kids and enjoying the atmosphere.

Guess I have to keep saving money because it is a cool family experience that we will probably have to keep doing as long as Naddiyah still loves the game.

Peace

Memorial Day 2007

Hope everyone is enjoying the day off. Remember, the best way to celebrate the life of those who gave their lives to ensure we continue to do what they fought so hard for: the pursuit of happiness. ;)

That means break out the BBQ pits and enjoy the day.

The boys and I had the pleasure of attending the annual grave decorating ceremony at Dayton National Cemetery, the 2nd largest veteran's cemetery outside of Arlington, on Saturday with the cub scouts of Centerville's (OH) Pack 148 amongst others. Kevin, Kaleb, and I attended and loved every minute. We were given bundles of flags and went around placing one flag per grave of our veterans. It was a wonderful sight to see, leaving the cemetery, as every grave was flying a flag.

The boys were dressed in their class A cub scout uniforms, so they looked very official and seemed to take the activity to heart. They learned the importance of not letting the flags hit the ground and learned how to handle their own bundle while kneeling to plant flags.

Think they learned alot about why we celebrate, but the crowning moment was the helicopter fly by accompanied by the three gun salute.

Until next post...

Peace be with you,
Kevin

Raffle Tickets - AAU Fundraiser

If you are interested in buying some $5.00 raffle tickets for $500.00 (hehehehe) or maybe just $5.00 each, please give me a call and I will write your name in on the drawing stub and you can send me a check.

Naddiyah is playing AAU basketball as I mentioned and their big fundraiser for Dayton Lady Hoopstars is a cash raffle that she is selling tickets for.

The 1st prize is $1000.00 cold hard cash with second and third prizes of $300.00 and $200.00, respectively.

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The raffle tickets can also be purchased for $5.50 using PayPal online donation using the link on this page. Please remember to enter the raffle ticket entry/contact information, so they know who to give the money to at the drawing - include address since out of town. The extra charge is due to cost for receiving funds through PayPal. Figured this is around the same cost of buying a stamp and envelope to send funds via "snail mail," so this shouldn't be too much of an overage.
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I have been trying to sell them at work for her like a good dad, but figured I would do a little advertising as I am not a great sales man, which is why I am into computers.

Anyway, hope everyone is doing well. Summer is coming, so enjoy it. I know we will as the AAU National Championship tournament for the 10 year olds is in Disney. Don’t be jealous, I have to figure out how to pay for it. :)

“Keep smiling”
Salaam (Peace)
Kev

Lil A.I.

And so another season of AAU (Amateur Athletic Union) is under way and Kailyn is playing again for the Dayton Lady Hoopstars. She has a long way to grow, but I love watching her play, especially when she exhibits all her talents and lives up to her nickname the A.I.

Under a great coach (not me), she hopefully will learn to keep her focus on the court and take her talent to the next level as she heads into middle school.

The 10U team she plays on has had two tournaments to date and they look real good already. I can't wait until they reach their full strength, which is hopefully by the National Championships in Florida or even better by the Ohio State Championships.

Go hoopstars!!

Tigers, Wolves, Bears, Oh My!

The boys are doing boy scouts and having lots of fun. Kaleb is working on becoming a tiger scout while Kevin has already earned his bear.

Kevin actually is excelling at scouting, while Kaleb is thebasketball player, but they both enjoy the cubscouts.

Student Athletes

It is always important to stimulate both the body and the mind. As a youngster, I excelled at Track & Field and Football. Working hard to be number one in sports is always good, but think after awhile I lost site of working hard mentally. Got complacent with getting by easily in classes, instead of striving to be A+ student all the time. Of course there was the unchallenged mind and peer pressure to not think of class as cool, but there was really no excuse to get a B when if a singular book was opened then there would be no stopping me.

Senior year I ended up quitting football to prove to colleges that there was indeed a brain under my helmet and scored exceptionally, earning a scholarship to Columbia. Better late than never, but the point of the story is student is first in "student athlete."

With that said, it has been a blessing to see the young members of the family living this ideal to the fullest. Hasan and Husain are not only football and wrestling allstars, but from what I hear Odyssey of the Mind champions...believe their team is poised to move on to states and even world champions within this mentally challenging arena.

Kailyn-Naddiyah is equally doing well with school and basketball and has already exhibited immense talent in both. Others in the family are excelling as well and it is good to see that our youngsters are positioning themselves to be great leaders of the future with sharp minds and bodies.

"Growing up is easy, it is growing out that is hard."